Self Assessment for Sexual Addiction
This assessment is here to help you determine if seeking help for sexual addiction is your next step. Answer each of the following with a "yes" or "no."
- Have you ever thought you needed help for your sexual thinking or behavior?
- Have you ever wondered if you'd be better off if you didn't keep "giving in?"
- Have you ever considered that sex or sexual stimuli are controlling you?
- Have you ever tried to stop or limit doing what you felt was wrong in your sexual behavior?
- Do you resort to sex to escape, relieve anxiety, or because you can't cope?
- Do you feel guilt, remorse, or depression afterward?
- Has your pursuit of sex become more compulsive?
- Does it interfere with relations with your spouse or significant other?
- Do you have to resort to images or memories during sex?
- Does an irresistible impulse arise when the other party makes the overtures or sex is offered?
- Do you keep going from one "relationship" or lover to another?
- Do you feel that the "right relationship" would help you stop lusting, masturbating, or being so promiscuous?
- Do you have a destructive need - a desperate sexual or emotional need for someone?
- Does pursuit of sex make you careless for yourself or the welfare of your family or others?
- Has your effectiveness or concentration decreased as sex has become more compulsive?
- Do you lose time from work or other things you care about for it?
- Do you turn to a lower environment when pursuing sex?
- Do you want to get away from your sex partner as soon as possible after the act?
- Although your spouse or significant other is sexually compatible, do you still masturbate or have sex with others?
- Have you ever been arrested for a sex-related offense?
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